How To Meet Hot Girls In Between Work And Play
One of the biggest complaints most people give when confronted about their lack of success in their dating lives is don't have enough time to meet people?or here are all the hot girls with the nice attitudes??The funny thing is that most people overlook the prime dating ground. Contrary to popular belief, the best place to meet incredibly beautiful girls who actually have some form of personality is not in those fancy SCARPE NIKE SHOX, snobbish, uptight nightclubs. Would you believe those clubs are typically full of fancy, snobbish SCARPE NIKE SHOX, uptight girls? No, the best place to meet a beautiful girl who is actually somewhat down to earth is on public transport.
The problem is, a lot of people have a number of concerns when it comes to speaking to people they've never met before in public. These concerns range from complete disbelief that you can actually meet someone on your way to work, right through to the concern of being ridiculed on your regular work journey in front of good ol' grandma who will give you that accusing glare for the rest of your trips to and from work for life.
Thankfully it doesn't have to be so messy, this guide will give you a few simple do's and don'ts of attempting to pull on public transport.
The Benefits Of Public Transport
Forget the economic benefits of taking public transport instead of using a car. Instead, think of how many different people you get to meet each day using the buses, trains and tubes. There are hundreds of people completely bored out of their brains SCARPE NIKE SHOX, desperate for some piece of entertainment or slight variation from the dreary drudgery of their boring lives. This is where you come in. Almost anything you say is better than the boredom of their day to day journeys. This is the one place you can meet new people every day without having to change your daily schedule.
The Unexpected Romance
When you meet someone at a club, you almost always run the risk of them knowing your intentions. We all know the score, regardless of what people think. We get dressed up, we do our hair, girls do their make up. Why? To pull, of course. This means that in those venues girls almost always expect you to be hitting on them. During the day on a crowded train you're unlikely to give off the sleazy chat-up vibe. Use this to your advantage.
Get a conversation started naturally by enquiring about the time a train is due to arrive, or whether a particular seat is taken. From this basic start you can build up to a reason to meet again, besides its much more romantic to say how you met your girlfriend randomly on a rainy day waiting at a bus stop, than that you picked her up in a club.
Don't Get Lost
As mentioned above, when attempting to pull on public transport, it's a lot easier to get things started if you come under the radar. Whilst it may be easy to get things started by using ave I missed a train??or hy is it always so packed in the morning on the Northern Line.?These don't tend to go anywhere and can leave you feeling lost. What you need is a way to continue the interaction. The easiest way to do this is with an observation. This can be a compliment on the way they've matched their shoes and accessories, an observation that you've seen them everyday so thought you would introduce yourself, or you might notice they have an accent and enquire as to where they're from. With all the regional dialects and varied accents around the UK it's easy to use this one to begin a lengthy conversation about where they're from and what they're doing now.
Speeding Up
Unless you've seen the person on regular journeys before and you know that they will be travelling with you for a while, you may only have mere moments before they leave the public transport for their stop. This means that you need to be thinking about collecting those digits right from the beginning. Try and soften the blow by hinting at the end early on. One of the easiest ways to do this is to mention a great place you know that they should visit such as a restaurant, site, or museum. Then when they make a move to leave simply throw out, ey, you know what, let me send you the details to that venue I mentioned?and collect those digits.
Social Networking Power
With only a few minutes to get someone's details it can be pretty weird to go for their phone number off the bat. Thankfully the Internet has come to our rescue with awesome social networking sites. Most people may hesitate to give you their personal number after a few minutes of chatting. Get their full name and check to see what social networking site they're on and you will find they are more than happy to add you, if only to see their friend count go up. Naturally once you're added, you can continue to chat them up at leisure and take your time over planning each and every response without the pressure of wondering what train station they'll be leaving at.
The Final Destination
The ideal situation is one where you find yourself getting off the transport at the same stop. Ideally it would be just after you got her phone number. Don't think it's all over just because you have her number. Fate has handed you the perfect situation to continue the pursuit into extra time. A classic mistake people make is to simply collect the number and run, as if they've just been awarded some kind of medal. You're in this for the big prize. Keep the interaction going and show her you're interested in her as a person, and not just adding her to your little black phone book.
HOP ON BOARD THE DATING TRAIN
Breaking through the fear barrier and actually starting conversations on the public transport is one of the biggest yet most rewarding hurdles you can get whilst trying to improve your dating life. The fear we experience of being rejected in front of others will often cripple people into inaction. The chance to meet someone outside of a typical social environment, with no loud noises and without the chance of some other dude trying to ruin your game plan, is almost priceless.
While everyone else is staring at you, they're not really wondering what you're doing. They're jealous at the fact you're talking to an incredibly hot girl who's eating out of your hand. Not only does it give you something better to do than reading old adverts and listening to the same music on your iPod, but when you do meet someone and arrange a date, she'll be thinking how romantic the gesture was rather than meeting another drunken loser in a bar. Related：
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